Top 5 Lessons from 5000 Readings

Top 5 Lessons from 5000 Readings

It’s hard to believe that I have been a psychic medium for almost a decade.

What’s even more amazing to think about, is that in almost 10 years, I have done approximately 5000 readings!

Between private 1/1 sessions, group readings, large events and online life and business coaching the number of readings quickly added up!

I am super honored to have this gift. It sometimes feels like a dream, or something out of a movie and I am so happy that I followed the calling when it showed up for me, because believe me, there were sometimes I seriously thought I was crazy. I mean who goes from being a corporate banker to being a life and business psychic medium?

But it paid off in ways I could never have imagined. And it paid off in the lessons that I have learned along the way from all of the readings I have done.

I have summarized here for you my Top 5 lessons from 5000 readings:

  1. What comes to me and through me is always for everyone’s highest good.
    I learned very early on in my readings that what I am reading and how I deliver the message are 2 totally different things! I’ve developed a sort of “psychic etiquette”, in my delivery of the messages from the Universe and our passed loved ones in spirit.

    I always channel from a beautiful place of love, light and inspiration.

    However, sometimes there are messages that need to be delivered that are more difficult for people to receive. Even in those moments, I know that it is exactly what they need to hear to be able to make decisions that will change their life and the direction they are heading.

  2. We all want validation that we’re doing the right thing and going in the right direction.
    Almost always when my clients have questions during their sessions, they know the answer, but it still feels so good to have the external validation that they were right.

    We all want to know that things are going to turn out ok. We all want to know we’re on the right path. We all want to know that we’re not alone and that the Universe does truly have our back.

    And I want you to feel in this moment right now, you are truly supported and surrounded by more love and light than you could ever imagine.

  3. Feeling your intuition is easy. Following your intuition, not so much…
    In my opinion and experience, following your intuition is often the harder choice. It often comes with consequences that feel hard in the moment, but on a deeper level we know that it is the right thing to do. We all know what happens if we don’t follow our intuition. And I must say, following your intuition is like building a muscle, it takes time, focus, dedication and determination to make it stronger. It’s one of my main purposes in life, teaching people how to own their intuition. After doing all of the readings that I have, my intuition is now my lifeline. I believe it, trust it and follow it over anything else on this planet. My hope is that you get to a place where you do the same.

  4. Saying goodbye is the hardest thing we ever do as human beings.
    The Grieving in goodbye is the ultimate moment of your soul expanding. It is the deepest part of you saying goodbye and letting go of someone, even though there is nothing more that you want than to cling to them, and force them to stay in your world, where all is good and comfortable.

    But what spirit always shows us is, that is not your right and would be the ultimate form of soul sabotage, especially when who you are really saying goodbye to is the old version of you.

    Whether it be to our classmates at the end of school, a breakup, divorce, a friendship that has run its course or saying goodbye to a loved one who has passed away, goodbye is never easy.

    It’s a fragile time where reflection and grace dance together lightly, trying to not awaken regret.

    Goodbyes, no matter how soft they may seem in the moment, equal emotional growth, and no growth comes without some sort of pain. And those levels of pain determine just how deep of an inward journey of healing you’ll need to go.

    Sometimes that journey is quick, like pulling a band aid off and then swiftly moving back to the speed of life. While other goodbye journeys drag out and can for some, literally last a lifetime.

    The pain lingers and the thoughts persist about what it would be like to ignore the goodbye that has to happen or has happened.

    There is so much unknown when we say goodbye. And unknown to the heart and mind equals fear.

    But to live In fear, is to not really live life at all. That type of living is nothing more than survival. And the Universe wants you living your life to the fullest!

  5. We all want to believe in the magic of the universe.
    We all want to know that we are special, unique and one of a kind to the Universe. We want to know that we are being seen and supported by something bigger. We want to believe in the magic of love and light. We want to see evidence in our daily life that there is a higher power.

    We want to know that there is an after life full of light and grace waiting for each of us. We want to know that we are making a difference. That yearning is meant to lead to your awakening. Its meant to lead you to an awareness and a remembrance that we chose to come here to do big things together. And I know this to be true for you, because you’re reading this.

I have so many beautiful memories and so many incredible stories that have come from me being in my gift and delivering it to the world. If you’re reading this, whether I’ve done a session with you or whether this is the first time you’ve experienced a piece of my work I sincerely mean it when I say thank you for allowing me to share this incredible gift with you! 

Manifesting it ALL

Manifesting it ALL

From the first time I listened to The Secret, driving in the car on my way to an insurance training in 2009, I have been wildly obsessed with manifesting and the law of attraction.

I will never forget the chills I felt all over my entire body when I heard Bob Proctor say “the secret is the law of attraction!”

I knew it was true and real. 

I remembered in that moment, I create my own reality.

That car ride was truly the start of my spiritual awakening, and led me on the most exhilarating journey in manifesting over the past decade.

I have gone on to create my dream business, uncovered my purpose and gifts, bought a lake home, the list truly goes on and on. 

All along the way, I have been seeking answers over and over again, at first for myself and then for my clients.




Why do some things manifest quickly and others take longer?

How high does my energy have to be?

How long after I think a thought about something I desire, does it take to receive it?

When is it coming?

The list of questions goes on and on.

Luckily, the answers the Universe brings to me goes on and on too. 

Let’s break down the 3 step law of attraction process- Starbucks drive thru-style.

  1. Get clear on your order.
    Are you sure you know what you want? Write it out, journal on the things that you truly want. No bartering, no denying and most of all no “how-ing”, (trying to instantly figure out how this could possibly happen for you). The how is not your job, that is the role of the Universe.
  2. Expect your order to come to you.
    Your role in the LOA process is to remain in a state of positive expectancy- a state of knowing that you “placed your order”, and it is being worked on. When you place your order in the drive thru, you relax and wait, because you know they are working on it inside. Think of the Universe as your desire barista!
  3. Receive
    The Universe knows exactly what you want by the thoughts and feelings that you are sending out into the Universe in every second. The deeper question here is do you realize what you are asking for? The law of attraction is a powerful force, always bringing you more of what you are thinking and feeling about. It is always delivering on what you’re giving.The key here is to focus on what you do have that you do love and appreciate it. If your focus is on what you want, but don’t have yet, then it is on the absence of the thing, and creating more charge to keep you in the absence of that thing.

    Stay locked in as long as possible to the belief and knowing that the Universe is conspiring now and always to bring you what you want.


I often think of the game “Red light-Green Light” when it comes to manifesting with the Universe.

When we are giving the green light energy, which is feeling good, thinking positive and are on a high frequency, the Universe can run towards us with everything we want to manifest. It can move about freely to rearrange the Universe to bring you what you want swiftly and in the most aligned and magical ways.

But when we start to worry, fear and doubt our dreams and desires, the Universe sees the red light energy you are in, and it stops in it’s tracks the creation it was working on for you.

I also want to make a point for discussion that the law of attraction is not just a manifesting strategy, it is truly a way of being and believing

It isn’t something that you turn on and off. The law of attraction is activated in your very existence, and in every thought that you think and emotion that you feel.

The more you learn to control these 2 elements, the more you begin to consciously control the creation of your life.

Some people think of the law of attraction as just some new age strategy to manifest , but it is truly so much more.

It awakens you to the powerful connection we have to the Universe, and gives you the evidence that we all need as human beings to know that there is a higher power working for us at all times, in ways we could never imagine.

If you want it, you can have it.

There is truly nothing too big for you- nothing that the Universe cannot mastermind into existence.

The Universe knows what it’s doing.

And if you still feel like you have been doing all of the right things and following the law of attraction formula, but you’re still not manifesting what you want, here are a few quick checks to get into alignment to receive:

  1. Are you attached to how? You don’t have to figure out how it can happen, you just have to believe and expect that it will. That is your role. Let the Universe figure out the how.
  2. Are you feeling now how you will feel when you have what you want? Feeling it now is the fastest way to it, and truly the only way to it. Feel it to receive it.
  3. Are you sure you want it? I love writing down all of the things I want at the beginning of the month and reviewing it as the month goes along. It blows my mind how quickly I change my mind about what I truly want. It is also such a great record of things that I thought I wanted that did not manifest, and looking back and understanding why. Because even if we think it didn’t work out for us, it worked out the best for us.

I love helping women like you consciously create whatever they most desire AND I love to help women connect to their deeper self and strengthen their relationship with the Universe. If this is something you want to focus on in 2022, hit reply and let’s chat about if private coaching is right for you!

To Manifesting it ALL-

Amber Annette