Top 5 Lessons from 5000 Readings

by Amber Annette | Mar 15, 2022 | Soul

It’s hard to believe that I have been a psychic medium for almost a decade.

What’s even more amazing to think about, is that in almost 10 years, I have done approximately 5000 readings!

Between private 1/1 sessions, group readings, large events and online life and business coaching the number of readings quickly added up!

I am super honored to have this gift. It sometimes feels like a dream, or something out of a movie and I am so happy that I followed the calling when it showed up for me, because believe me, there were sometimes I seriously thought I was crazy. I mean who goes from being a corporate banker to being a life and business psychic medium?

But it paid off in ways I could never have imagined. And it paid off in the lessons that I have learned along the way from all of the readings I have done.

I have summarized here for you my Top 5 lessons from 5000 readings:

1. What comes to me and through me is always for everyone’s highest good.
   I learned very early on in my readings that what I am reading and how I deliver the message are 2 totally different things! I’ve developed a sort of “psychic etiquette”, in my delivery of the messages from the Universe and our passed loved ones in spirit.

   I always channel from a beautiful place of love, light and inspiration.

   However, sometimes there are messages that need to be delivered that are more difficult for people to receive. Even in those moments, I know that it is exactly what they need to hear to be able to make decisions that will change their life and the direction they are heading.




2. We all want validation that we’re doing the right thing and going in the right direction.
   Almost always when my clients have questions during their sessions, they know the answer, but it still feels so good to have the external validation that they were right.

   We all want to know that things are going to turn out ok. We all want to know we’re on the right path. We all want to know that we’re not alone and that the Universe does truly have our back.

   And I want you to feel in this moment right now, you are truly supported and surrounded by more love and light than you could ever imagine.




3. Feeling your intuition is easy. Following your intuition, not so much…
   In my opinion and experience, following your intuition is often the harder choice. It often comes with consequences that feel hard in the moment, but on a deeper level we know that it is the right thing to do. We all know what happens if we don’t follow our intuition. And I must say, following your intuition is like building a muscle, it takes time, focus, dedication and determination to make it stronger. It’s one of my main purposes in life, teaching people how to own their intuition. After doing all of the readings that I have, my intuition is now my lifeline. I believe it, trust it and follow it over anything else on this planet. My hope is that you get to a place where you do the same.




4. Saying goodbye is the hardest thing we ever do as human beings.
   The Grieving in goodbye is the ultimate moment of your soul expanding. It is the deepest part of you saying goodbye and letting go of someone, even though there is nothing more that you want than to cling to them, and force them to stay in your world, where all is good and comfortable.

   But what spirit always shows us is, that is not your right and would be the ultimate form of soul sabotage, especially when who you are really saying goodbye to is the old version of you.

   Whether it be to our classmates at the end of school, a breakup, divorce, a friendship that has run its course or saying goodbye to a loved one who has passed away, goodbye is never easy.

   It’s a fragile time where reflection and grace dance together lightly, trying to not awaken regret.

   Goodbyes, no matter how soft they may seem in the moment, equal emotional growth, and no growth comes without some sort of pain. And those levels of pain determine just how deep of an inward journey of healing you’ll need to go.

   Sometimes that journey is quick, like pulling a band aid off and then swiftly moving back to the speed of life. While other goodbye journeys drag out and can for some, literally last a lifetime.

   The pain lingers and the thoughts persist about what it would be like to ignore the goodbye that has to happen or has happened.

   There is so much unknown when we say goodbye. And unknown to the heart and mind equals fear.

   But to live In fear, is to not really live life at all. That type of living is nothing more than survival. And the Universe wants you living your life to the fullest!




5. We all want to believe in the magic of the universe.
   We all want to know that we are special, unique and one of a kind to the Universe. We want to know that we are being seen and supported by something bigger. We want to believe in the magic of love and light. We want to see evidence in our daily life that there is a higher power.

   We want to know that there is an after life full of light and grace waiting for each of us. We want to know that we are making a difference. That yearning is meant to lead to your awakening. Its meant to lead you to an awareness and a remembrance that we chose to come here to do big things together. And I know this to be true for you, because you’re reading this.

I have so many beautiful memories and so many incredible stories that have come from me being in my gift and delivering it to the world. If you’re reading this, whether I’ve done a session with you or whether this is the first time you’ve experienced a piece of my work I sincerely mean it when I say thank you for allowing me to share this incredible gift with you!